Peter Dow is single and looking for a woman

"I'd like to find a lady to love and to start a family with" writes Peter ...

Well I have had lady friends now and then in my life but I've yet to find a woman to be my partner in life and have my children.
Is there a woman for me somewhere in this wide world? I am hoping that the internet will help me to find that special someone for me and that's why I am writing this page.

What do I have to offer a woman?

Well not riches certainly. I live off welfare and have done for years - it is a reliable, though low, income which increases to a couple's allowance if I can find a partner who is "habitually resident in the UK" - lived for years in Scotland, England, Wales or Northern Ireland. I am pro-Scottish of course but actually most of my previous lady friends have come from outside Scotland originally.

Of course, welfare here does pay extra for children and so I can afford to bring up kids no problem. A woman with no kids of her own yet but keen to start a family would be ideal.

I would though consider taking on a woman who would be bringing her children from a previous relationship with her to stay with us - so long as my woman is ready to conceive right away and is prepared to deliver my children to create our new family. My woman's daughters would be particularly welcome but I won't allow a woman's teenage or older sons to move in with me as I don't want to have to deal with testosterone-fuelled conflicts with rival young men in my own household.

I could provide a home that is warm, dry and secure and where mother and children can be safe and well-fed. I live in a single-person's flat right now but my family would move to bigger accommodation as and when needed. Foreign holidays and having a car are not so easy to afford on welfare though.

What kind of woman am I looking for?

I am looking for a woman who would like me, love me and who would stick with me through good times and bad. A local woman, a Scot or a Briton would be great and there are other possibilities too.

I would consider taking on a woman from abroad but then she would really need to have work or money of her own as it would be difficult (but not impossible) for two to live off my single person's allowance.

I like women of all ethnic types and have previously had brief relationships with an ethnic Asian woman, an ethnic black woman, as well as several with ethnic white women. Race or colour is no barrier to love with me.

I am not adverse to introducing a bit of polygamy (polygyny) into my life, so if, say, sisters, women friends or bisexual women partners wanted to share me and for us all to live together as one happy family, then I'd be all for that. One woman at a time is enough to keep me happy but I'd also be happy to live with and take on more than one woman at a time, so long as I didn't have to share the women under my roof with any other man.

Definitely no swinging or sleeping around in future - that does not appeal to me and it has dangers that I wouldn't want to risk. I wish to maintain my good sexual health and I'd expect my partner to do the same.

Ages: Well I am 45 and my main requirement is that my lady be of child-bearing age (aged 16 to 40 is fine), and younger women have time to bear more children. The more children a woman could bear for me, the happier I'll be.

Education: Obviously, I am a highly educated person and so a well-educated mature woman or a young woman with the potential to learn would be ideal. A woman reading this and able to send me emails can assume that the chances are that she is smart enough for my requirements.

Politics and religion: Well I have strong political principles and I am not religious although I would respect the beliefs of my woman partner and I would be happy to agree to disagree where necessary. For example, I could live with a woman who "likes the Queen" so long as she can live with me when I "want the Queen dead"! As long as we can tolerate each other's views, that is the main thing. I am not sure that I could cope for very long with a woman who was a racist or an anti-gay bigot though - I do want my woman to care and not to be indifferent or cruel to the innocent though.

Marriage: Potentially yes, I would be prepared to get married legally if that's what my partner wanted and when finances allowed. I should say though that I don't have much respect for state institutions and laws interfering in people's personal lives.

Non-smoker: I don't smoke and I don't want my partner to smoke either, particularly in the house. A glass of an alcoholic drink now and then is OK but I don't drink heavily and I don't want a woman with a drink problem or a drugs habit.

Sizes: I am 6 feet tall (1.83m) and you can see my build in the photographs from 2004. I have dated women in heights from 5 feet and a few inches to 6 feet 4 inches, so I am not too particular about height. I do though want a woman who is at least fit enough to run for a bus, ride a bicycle or stretch to catch a ball from time to time. A brisk 30 minute walk to the supermarket with me once a week should not be a problem. So no anorexics or very fat women please.

Talking of fat. Unfortunately, I've put on weight since June 2005 and my waist size as of October 2005 is a disgusting 42 inches (107 cm)! I must find some will power to diet and begin to slim down to the 34 inches (86cm) waist I have when I am in good shape. My ideal woman's non-pregnant waist size should be inches slimmer than mine please (her waist should be no bigger than 34 inches 86cm maximum and should be at least 6 inches (15cm) smaller than her hips).

My hips are 41 inches (104 cm) and my ideal woman can have hips nearly as big or bigger than mine, no problem. Her hips should be no bigger than 44 inches (112cm) maximum and be no smaller than 34 inches (86cm) minimum.

Breast sizes I am not too fussy about - small, medium or large - I like them all. Really the best thing ladies can do here is to email me a photograph or two so that I can see for myself.

So I guess that my ideal measurement for a woman might be if she had a waist of around 29 inches (74cm) and hips of around 39 inches (99cm) but I do lust strongly after women who are very far from my ideal so don't worry about that.

Trying for children: I'd like to try for my first baby right away. So I'd advise my woman to be as sure as she can be that I'm right for her before she moves in. When my lady moves in, I'll be expecting to have sex with her with no contraception. At my age, I have no time to waste before getting my family started.

Where: Unless there is a better plan, I'd expect a woman to move in with me here in Aberdeen in the first instance. Since the main aim is to have a family, I'd expect the main reason to move home will be when more room is needed for the kids.

Money: Do not ask me for money up front supposedly to "help you to travel to Aberdeen or move in with me". I won't send money to anyone on that basis as I'll suspect right away that I am being targeted by a scam artist.

How to get started: A woman who wants to see if we are right for each other should contact me in the first instance. A text-message, an email and a phone-call should get the ball rolling, so to speak. It might work out so why don't you contact me now and we'll soon find out? It could be the start of our happy life together!

Mobile: 07796 790 745. Email: peterdow@talk21.com

No gay men, no transsexuals, no female impersonators. Genuine women only should apply!

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